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Help beyond this room

This room is a place to be heard. It is not a crisis service, and it is not a substitute for care. These are places that can offer more.

If you need help right now

  • Emergency services

    If you are in immediate danger, call your local emergency number (911 in the US, 112 in Europe).

  • Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline (US) — for anyone under 18

    Call or text 1-800-422-4453, any hour. For girls still living at home who need help now.

  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (US)

    Call or text 988, any hour, free and confidential.

  • Crisis Text Line

    Text HOME to 741741 (US and Canada) to reach a trained counselor by text.

For survivors of sexual abuse

  • RAINN — National Sexual Assault Hotline (US)

    1-800-656-4673, or online chat at rainn.org. Free, confidential, 24/7.

  • 1in6

    Support and information for people who had unwanted or abusive sexual experiences in childhood. 1in6.org.

  • The Survivors Trust (UK)

    08088 802818, or thesurvivorstrust.org.

Finding ongoing support

  • A trauma-informed therapist

    Look for someone who names trauma or EMDR as a specialty. Psychology Today's directory lets you filter by this.

  • Books many survivors found steadying

    “The Body Keeps the Score” by Bessel van der Kolk; “The Courage to Heal” by Ellen Bass and Laura Davis.

If you are in immediate danger, please contact local emergency services first. Everything else can wait.